‘SHAME!!! SHAME!!! SHAME!!! ON YOU BODY SHAMERS ! ” I mean it, If you have ever cowardly sat behind your computer or phone or whatever and propped your chin on your hand and let your mind wonder on what possible way to shame a lady or a man’s body , I repeat……. shame on you!!!! . see , I happened to be part of a healthy women’s weight loss group on social media. It is a very good initiative and at the same time a platform for other people to practice a full time job on body shamming. It is quite sad to see women hating on other women because of how they look. Think about it this way, at the end of the day, there is someone who is always going to be better than you , leaner looking than you , taller than you , shorter than you , with bigger hips than you , smaller hips than you , longer hair , bigger or smaller breasts than you , a flatter tummy etc and it all just trickles down to embracing yourself and loving your flaws. we are all blessed and the reason we do not see how much we are blessed is simply because we spend years looking at others a lot and forget to look within us . You will definitely miss out on your life just because you are busy obsessing over another person’s. Body shamming starts with listening to a very jealous lie within us, saying ” Gigi Hadid has finer looking abs and my stomach is a flabby annoying thing so I am just going to write a whole paragraph on how ‘ugly’ she looks ( she is a goddess my friend) to make myself feel better .” Oh man! sorry!!!…. not ‘gonna’ happen. You will come back with the same damn comments simply because the previous comment didn’t boost your ego at all and it will go on and on and on and I wonder where that will leave you. Just because you have an opinion , It doesn’t make you a politician . Your opinion is definitely not going to travel time and change how she looks , she will still strut that runway and still be as gorgeous. Next time you have nothing good to say, please do not say anything at all. It is not that we do not have opinions about others, we do, we just do not creep up on their social media walls to say them. Try caring , try saying something good, try loving not hating , try being nicer and learn how to compliment people and the good favors will be returned. Do not be a source of another person’s misery and cries , Karma is a nasty canine me Amor , It is going to Boomerang right back to you someday!!!! And for anyone who has undergone Cyber bullying – body shamming or live body shamming from people around you , remember to Shake it off, do not talk back , don’t let it get to you. it is a reflection of how they feel about themselves and because you have something they would travel the skies to get but they cant . Be happy! Be you! stay beautiful! Stop Body Shaming!